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What to Expect and When In Toddler Development and Milestones?

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Toddlers, typically defined as children between the ages of 1 to 3 years old, undergo remarkable growth and development in various aspects of their lives. This period is characterized by rapid changes in physical abilities, cognitive skills, language acquisition, emotional development, and social interactions. While each child develops at their own pace, understanding the general milestones can offer valuable insights for parents and caregivers to support their toddlers' growth effectively.


Physical Development


Physical milestones in toddlers involve both gross motor skills, which are large movements involving the arms, legs, and torso, and fine motor skills, which are smaller movements involving the hands and fingers.


1. Gross Motor Skills:

During the first year, most toddlers make significant strides in gross motor skills, moving from rolling and crawling to walking and running independently. Here's a breakdown of the milestones:


  • 12-18 Months: Toddlers typically transition from crawling to walking and begin to explore their environment more independently. They can also climb stairs with assistance and might start to kick or throw a ball.

  • 18-24 Months: Balance and coordination improve, enabling toddlers to run more confidently, climb onto furniture, and attempt to jump with both feet off the ground.

  • 2-3 Years: By this age, toddlers are refining their motor skills further. They can pedal a tricycle, climb playground equipment with minimal assistance, and might even start to hop on one foot.


2. Fine Motor Skills:

Fine motor skills involve precise movements of the hands and fingers. These skills are crucial for activities like drawing, writing, and manipulating small objects. Milestones include:

  • 12-18 Months: Toddlers begin to grasp objects using their thumb and forefinger (pincer grasp) and may enjoy scribbling with crayons or markers.

  • 18-24 Months: They can stack blocks, turn pages of a book, and start to use utensils to feed themselves. Their hand-eye coordination improves, allowing them to engage in more intricate play activities.

  • 2-3 Years: Fine motor skills continue to develop, and toddlers can manipulate smaller objects, use scissors with supervision, and start to dress and undress themselves with increasing independence. Cognitive development in toddlers involves how they think, learn, remember, and solve problems. This stage is marked by significant advancements in language acquisition, memory skills, and understanding of their surroundings.


  • Language development during toddlerhood is rapid and forms the basis for their ability to express themselves and interact with others. Milestones include:

  • 12-18 Months: Toddlers typically start using single words to communicate basic needs and desires ("mama," "dada," "more"). They also begin to understand simple instructions and gestures.

  • 18-24 Months: Vocabulary expands rapidly, with toddlers acquiring around 50 words or more. They start to combine words into two-word phrases and may engage in simple conversations.

  • 2-3 Years: Sentences become more complex, and toddlers can express their thoughts and feelings more clearly. They begin to ask questions and use language to negotiate and problem-solve in social situations.

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2. Problem-Solving and Understanding:

Toddlers are natural explorers and problem-solvers. Cognitive milestones include:

  • 12-18 Months: They start to understand cause and effect relationships, such as pushing a button to make a toy light up or dropping objects to see them fall.

  • 18-24 Months: Toddlers can sort shapes and colors and show curiosity about how things work. They begin to imitate adult behaviors and use objects in imaginative play.

  • 2-3 Years: Problem-solving abilities improve, allowing toddlers to complete simple puzzles, follow multi-step instructions, and understand basic concepts of time and sequence (e.g., morning, night, yesterday, tomorrow).


Emotional and Social Development

Emotional and social milestones focus on how toddlers interact with others, manage their emotions, and develop a sense of self-awareness and empathy.

1. Social Skills:

Social development during toddlerhood involves learning to interact with others and navigate social situations. Milestones include:

  • 12-18 Months: Toddlers start to enjoy parallel play, where they play alongside other children without necessarily interacting directly. They show preferences for familiar adults and caregivers.

  • 18-24 Months: They begin to engage in simple pretend play and show interest in playing with peers. They may imitate actions and behaviors they observe in others.

  • 2-3 Years: Social interactions become more sophisticated as toddlers learn to share toys (albeit with some guidance), take turns, and develop early friendships. They start to understand concepts like taking care of others and showing empathy.


2. Emotional Development:

Emotional development involves understanding and managing emotions, both their own and others'. Milestones include:

  • 12-18 Months: Toddlers experience a wide range of emotions, from joy and excitement to frustration and anger. They begin to recognize simple emotions in others, such as when someone is sad or happy.

  • 18-24 Months: Emotional control improves, and toddlers start to express empathy towards others. They may comfort a crying friend or show concern when someone is hurt.

  • 2-3 Years: They develop a more nuanced understanding of emotions, such as jealousy, guilt, or pride. Toddlers can articulate their feelings more clearly and may seek comfort from trusted adults during times of distress.


Supporting Your Toddler’s Development

Understanding these developmental milestones allows parents and caregivers to provide meaningful support and encouragement to their toddlers:

  1. Encourage Exploration: Provide safe environments where toddlers can explore and practice new skills. Outdoor play and sensory activities are particularly beneficial.

  2. Read Together: Reading to toddlers stimulates language development, fosters imagination, and builds early literacy skills. Choose age-appropriate books with colorful illustrations and engaging stories.

  3. Engage in Play: Play is essential for cognitive, social, and emotional development. Join your toddler in pretend play, offer toys that encourage creativity and problem-solving (e.g., building blocks, puzzles), and participate in activities that promote physical movement and coordination.

  4. Provide Nutritious Meals: A balanced diet supports overall health and development. Offer a variety of foods rich in nutrients, vitamins, and minerals, and encourage toddlers to explore different tastes and textures.

  5. Celebrate Milestones: Recognize and celebrate your toddler's achievements, whether it's learning a new word, mastering a new skill, or showing kindness towards others. Positive reinforcement boosts their self-esteem and motivation to continue learning and growing.


Understanding toddler development milestones is crucial for parents and caregivers as they navigate the exciting and sometimes challenging journey of raising a toddler. While every child develops at their own pace, knowing what to expect during each stage of development allows you to provide appropriate support, encouragement, and guidance.


By creating a nurturing environment that promotes exploration, learning, and emotional well-being, you can help your toddler thrive and reach their full potential. Celebrate each milestone achieved, no matter how small, and cherish the precious moments of discovery and growth that define this remarkable stage of childhood.


This blog has been written by the passionate team at EYES Koalakidz Daycare – where every word echoes our dedication to providing a remarkable Montessori daycare experience in Vaughan. As advocates for early childhood development, we invite you to explore the world of EYES Koalakidz, where learning is an adventure, and each child's journey is unique. We're excited to be part of your child's growth and discovery, offering a warm and stimulating environment that nurtures their curiosity. Join us at EYES Koalakidz Daycare, where the joy of learning begins!

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